March 2004 Archives

Luuuucy, I'm hoooome...

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So as those of you who read the wife's blog know, we spent the last week in Madrid and the surrounding environs. With the exception of the snow we saw on the way to the airport, a few episodes of getting lost while wandering around Toledo, and a comically bad dinner experience our last night there, we had a terrific time. Highlights of the week for me:

- Getting to see my host family again. We stopped by the store on Sunday to find it closed, on Monday to find only Deme there (Deme, short for Demetrio, is my host mother's cousin who lives with them - turns out they had stayed an extra day in their farm house in Talavera because the traffic was so bad), on Wednesday to again find only Deme there (my host father's mother had caught a cold since at 80 she still insists on doing all the chores - inside and out). We finally caught up with them on Thursday, upon which they invited us back for lunch (the big meal) on Friday. It was basically like being back with them - except for a different cast of dogs, the apartment had barely changed at all. And her lentil soup with chorizo was as delicious as ever. We spent a ridiculous amount of money at their store, but in true Spanish friend fashion, they gave us a few small pieces for free, and wouldn't let us pay full price for the rest.

- Knowing my way around. It was amazing how little I'd forgotten in the nine years since I'd really been there. It was a bit disappointing to find out that Middlebury didn't even have a program at the Instituto Internacional anymore - all of their classes are now done through the Universidad Complutense (which interestingly enough, I had been asking about when I took my classes there...I didn't want to take courses in Spain with a bunch of Americans). But all of the major streets joined together just as I'd remembered, and usually if we got off track, within two blocks I knew exactly where we were going and how to get there. It was also great to know the 'back story' to so much of the stuff in Madrid and have someone to tell it to. Funniest was seeing that even ten years later, they STILL give out "El Corte Inglés" maps to guide folks around the city. I've gone through several of them now on my various visits to Madrid, I think...

- FOOD. I'd always kind of discounted the tour books' recommendations of restaurants, figuring that if you were in a major city, you'd be able to find good eats pretty much anywhere you went. But as it turned out, most of the places recommended in the tour book were excellent and fairly cheap, and the places we opted for instead of the tour book recommendations were really hit-or-miss. Prime example of this was the place we ate at our last night - I should have been wary of the fact that it was on Gran Vía, one of the main thoroughfares of Madrid, but the menu in the window didn't look too bad and the way it billed itself as an Asturian eatery (Asturias is a region from northern Spain known for its hearty food and excellent seafood) was appealing. After our plans fell through at the first place we tried, we thought we'd give it a shot as we'd walked by it so many times. Viv's rule was that we wouldn't eat anywhere that was empty, reasoning that popular places were popular for a reason. There was a crowd at the bar as we went in and a couple tables full of diners. But no sooner had we sat down than the bar and one of the tables emptied, and the waiter handed us a bilingual menu (a sign they were slightly less authentic than they let on). And as it turns out, the full tables next to us were not full of locals but Germans who were smoking like chimneys. Ah, well. The other places were for the most part wonderful, especially Gambrinus, the restaurant in Toledo where we ate lunch out on the plaza in the glorious sun. Ran through a bunch of Fanta Limón, a huge plate of fried calamari strips, a pile of patatas bravas, and a mixed salad. In Spain they don't have the annoying American habit of coming by every two minutes to ask how the meal is, but instead they let you enjoy it at your leisure, so we sat there for a good 90 minutes, at least.

- Safety. It turns out that even the most momentary fears were unfounded about Madrid being in a state of panic or chaos while we were there. Of course, the train bombings were topic #1 on anyone's lips while we were there, but we weren't subjected to any additional, unreasonable searches in the airport or anywhere else, nor were we subject to any American-bashing or other untoward behavior. We traveled on the bus to Toledo, took the Metro (subway) around central Madrid, and never felt unsafe in the least. We did make an attempt to appear more nondescript while walking around Madrid, though - didn't carry the camera much (so not too many pictures, unfortunately), wore shoes instead of sneakers, skipped the flashy T-shirts in favor of muted shirts and sweaters, tried to speak Spanish whenever possible, etc. We were still greeted in English at a good number of restaurants, but despite not wearing a T-shirt saying "I didn't vote for Bush" (as I joked to my host family), there wasn't a single difficulty while we were there that wasn't entirely self-induced (like my stubbornness at going down several streets in Toledo that I was convinced would lead us to the Calle Santo Tomé or back to the Plaza de Zocodóver).

I of course wish we'd had more time - we never did get to the Retiro, the Royal Palace, or a dozen more little nooks and crannies of Madrid - but we're already making plans for where to go for our next visit. Will it be the green, foggy, rocky, New England-esque coast of Galicia? The cosmopolitan port of Barcelona? Or the southern Andalucía that everyone thinks of when they think of Spain? So many regions, so many personalities...

An open letter

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Dear Mother Nature,

Cut the shit. Thanks.

--Dave

Frightening

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I've been to Spain three times over the course of my life, and have enjoyed every minute of those visits greatly. Three weeks in Valencia during my junior year of high school, nine months in Madrid as part of junior year abroad in college, and then two weeks in 1998 when I was a teacher at Hebron Academy, showing a half-dozen students around the sights of Madrid and eastward into Portugal.

Back when we were planning our honeymoon, Viv and I gave some serious thought to going to Spain, but ultimately decided against it for financial considerations, along with the fact that in Spain, in July you can roast a rack of lamb on the sidewalk. My host family said they'd never seen it snow in Madrid, and these were no spring chickens. They took a few minutes to gather their collective jaws from the floor when I told them that the previous winter, about 50 miles from where I went to college, the thermometer had registered something like 57 below with wind chill (I had much the same reaction at the time myself).

But now that we've saved up a good bit of money, we're going back, finally, starting on March 20th, for one glorious week in the general Madrid area. Plane tickets are purchase, hotel reservations are made, and basically no other plans are set - we're going to go and just be there and see what happens. Maybe drop in on my host family, take some day trips, etc.

This morning, though, was frightening, and made me at least hesitate for a split-second about going - ten bombs exploded at various points along a Spanish commuter line north of Madrid during the peak of the morning rush, killing more than 180 people. My reasonable mind tells me that we wouldn't be riding commuter trains, not that early in the morning, and that the bombs were timed to coincide with the elections that are going on this weekend. But still, it's scary to think about - especially when they're not sure exactly who's to blame. The Basque separatist group ETA usually phones in warnings before they set off their bombs, but that didn't happen this time around. Others are pointing to an "Arab resistance" group - there's a sizable Arab population in Spain, especially in the south. Still, the type of explosive used is the same one that ETA typically uses...so who knows?

I guess we'll just have to be careful...but I just wish I didn't have to think like this at all.

Memory...

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Memory
It arrived via FedEx
I can smile at the package
That arrived at my door
I remember
The time I knew what rapidness was
Let the memory live again

Sorry. Got a little carried away there. My replacement 512MB memory card arrived yesterday from Kingston and not only does it have me excited enough to give them a link, but it apparently excites me enough to mangle the most famous song from "Cats" in a tribute to the newly-rediscovered speed of my home computer. It's been deathly slow since I took it out in what, January?

But if you're going to buy memory, an unsolicited plug for Kingston - lots of companies have lifetime guarantees that mean "within the expected lifetime of a gnat". This one's actually lifetime - if it craps out, send it in and get a replacement. So high praise for Kingston. Buy their stuff.

Not quite top 50...

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...but close enough. New rating is 1849, good for 56th in the country. Two spots better than my previous best, and a mere 2,403 spots ahead of my wife.

Which, by the way, gives me a good answer to the "So, are you still beating your wife?" conundrum: "Yes, most of the time. In Scrabble."

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Clever...but not so clever

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So there's a new virus going around, dubbed "Bagle" (why Bagle and not Bagel is beyond me). This one is particularly clever because it fakes the "From:" address as coming from staff@yourisp.com or admin@yourisp.com and has a message that reads something like "Our main mailing server will be temporary unavaible for next two days, to continue receiving mail in these days you have to configure our free auto-forwarding service." Ok, that's fairly credible. But the real clever twist comes when you see that there's a .zip as the attachment. Normally, not a big deal. But the .zip file is password-protected, which means that virus software can't scan it like it would scan a regular .zip file. The email also provides the password for the .zip so you can open it - but by the time you open it to have it scanned (or to look at the contents)...you're infected. Very clever.

But what gets me is that they have yet to have a big virus outbreak without some major spelling or grammatical mistake in the message that should tip you off that you're not dealing with a corporation (not that those who run ISPs are all grammarians - far from it). The above message is one of several permutations - virtually all of which are rife with typos and other mistakes (Temporary unavaible? You mean temporarily unavailable?). Not so clever. If we ever get a virus writer who can actually use English properly, we're all in for a world of trouble.

Everyone else is doing it, so why can't I?

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All apologies to the Cranberries for that unoriginal title poaching. I thought I'd make this a little bit different than other people's entries. So...

My visited states map

Like I've said elsewhere in this blog, I was born into a traveling family. We drove cross-country in '86, taking a northern route on the way out and a southern route on the way back. We drove to Florida and back at least once as a family (and then Viv and I drove there for New Year's '97) and to Illinois and back several times. There are a few states I'm not 100% sure of - we may have skirted Nebraska but I can't remember. Oklahoma is another maybe. But the rest of the reds I'm positive of - we may have even gone through Arkansas and Tennessee at some point but I'd have to check with my parents.

My map of states I've seen Blues Traveler in

Florida was our big trip for New Year's '97 - two shows in Pompano Beach. Many fond memories of sleeping on Jeff Nelson's floor, drinking his beer (he's a brewmaster) and eating barbecue in his yard (after Mark Colombo sliced his hand open cutting the chicken). Colorado is a pilgrimage I've made several times, including one memorable run in 2000 where I flew to St. Louis, saw a show there, then drove into Kansas, saw a show there, then continued to a show at Red Rocks and another at the Fox Theatre in Boulder. What a great trip. Ohio is the other random one - our FANatic filming for MTV. The latest additions to this map are MD, DC and Virginia after my trip last summer - nice to have a friend who lives in northern Virginia. Can't believe I haven't seen the band in Pennsylvania yet!

My map of states I've seen Guster in

The guys tour around here much more often than Blues Traveler does. It doesn't look like I've traveled as far afield (except for that one show in California when we happened to be there when Guster was opening for John Mayer) but we've probably logged more miles on Guster than on BT. Illinois was this past New Year's in Chicago, of course, and we took a random trip in 2000 to Michigan and Ohio. Gotta do another one of those sometime.

And now, the obligatory link that the page tags onto the "easy to cut and paste int your own blog" code: create your own personalized map of the USA